The Impermanence of Life: A Heuristic for Handling Loss

Impermanence in sand

The moments of deepest contentment in my life have come in moments when I am forced to accept the impermanence of it. I knew it was coming. That text or that phone call would come, and I wouldn’t know how to handle it. Then, at 2:00pm on Thursday, the dreaded text came through: my grandfather,…

Growing Up with Two Mentally Ill Parents

Growing Up with Two Mentally Ill Parents

No one is watching. No one is listening. No one cares. It’s funny, when you want to send something out to the world, those words are among your greatest fears. But when you want to keep something in from the world, those words can bring you the greatest comfort. So, what happens when those two…

Why I Left a Six-Figure Existence to Create my Own Destiny

Stop Chasing Money and Status. Build Wealth and Meaning Instead. You'll Never Look Back. I recently left my high-paying job as a restaurant manager with the intent on creating my own destiny. But why? Being in charge of such a large organization had all the trappings anyone might want: money, power, status, a comfortable two-bedroom…

Turning Diamonds Into Water: If You Keep Your Soul, the World is Yours

Keep Your Soul

How to Keep Your Soul and Find Meaning Using the Paradox of Value "Everything in life is truly free, if you keep your soul.” This was the vivid and profound message in my head when I woke up from a dream the other morning. The message itself was engrained in my brain, no messenger. I…